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I'm constantly trying to drown out comments like, "Stop with your nakhras, no one is perfect" and "Till how long will you keep rejecting rishtas? You're not going to be of marriageable age for long. Eventually, I learned the art of, 'Jee aunty, bas dua karein ', a result of endless disagreements and fruitless debates.

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He also knows I smoke so he is telling everybody and the reason for this is because I dont want to stay in Pakistan and the way he is has made me hate him. She said, "O Messenger of Allaah, I have accepted what my father did, but I wanted to prove something to other women. Sister, I don't understand why you're shocked that your husband's Visa is expiring - it's a very common thing for people from the homeland to marry a relative in the West so that the spouse from the homeland can come to the West.

She is trapped in a coerced marriage and the only think you can find to say is, "stop smoking. So she went to Allah's Apostle and he declared that marriage invalid. I hope this makes sense. Just say no, and keep saying no. Refuse to get dressed up or meet the suitors you have no interest in. So common that it really should not have come as a shock to you Anyway, what do you mean your mother got you married?

I love my parents but my dad has always been aggressive - although he is a haji he still is very rude towards his children and wife.

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The Prophet peace This blessings of Allaah be upon him sent for her father, then he gave the girl the choice of what to do. Source: Fatwas of the Permanent Committee link: www. One of the reasons you stated that you did not want to marry someone from overseas was the different mentality As you can see, it is a lot harder to extract yourself from the situation memarried it has already happened. It's not clear to me how you got married. It would have been so much less complicated if girls had the courage to stand up for themselves before marriage.

But i could advice you on smoking. To the OP, there is a lot of information missing from what you wrote how the marriage happened - and if this was just for citizenship, perhaps you need to part your ways. I did and he seemed ok but seemed very desperate in a etc way. She asked me to marry a man from her family side and I did not want to get married to someone from pakistan as Mom feel their mentality is very different from ours so wanted someone from the UK. Anyway this guy was in Australia and mum said she was advised by her side of family that he is a very nice guy so mum asked me to speak to him once.

May Allah grant us success! A forced marriage in which you did not give consent is invalid.

You didn't yourself make any vows? Yet again, what you pick out as the most important details of people's problems to comment on are beyond me.

Aa'ishah said, "Sit here until the Prophet peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him comes. I spoke to my mum and said I do not want to marry this guy. To me, it seems that he was perhaps too weak to stand up against your mother but was okay with you saying no and would have supported you at that time.

I then tried mom speak to my dad etc said "I cant help you; it's your decision so just say no". I was crying asking my mum why she agreed when I didn't give my consent. Your parents will be upset, but they'll get over it in time Insha'Allah. Girls who end up in this situation usually do because it honestly seems like the best of two horrible situations - get married to someone they don't want to OR suffer the constant torment from parents that you ruined their name and life--so in their twisted thinking, they marry who their parents want to give their parents somethings to make them proud.

Your mother cannot do that for you, sister I know that there are girls out there who will be forced, but the type of girls who would be forced are the ones who were never taught to have an opinion or that their decision was valid. I cried and begged but they were just not wanting to listen and said all sorts of things to me that I don't listen.

As much as I think this is very random and I did not think smoking was a big issue in her problem I think that brother Abdullah really didn't know how to give advice concerning her marital problem so he decided to give advice on what he did know, which was memarried harmful effects of smoking.

Quran It wastes money and the Prophet peace be upon him prohibited squandering money. Even if your marriage is valid, if you truly can't stand him and don't want to continue, then get divorced. Regardless, it seems that you were at least coerced and do not want the marriage, so I advise that you take steps to end the marriage if you feel that you cannot continue. Honestly, if my parents had picked out some cousin in Iran and told me I had to marry him even though I tell them no I would have ran away and not come back until they agree to let me choose my own spouse.

For other girls in this situation, I would advise you to listen to your fathers when they say such words. She is asking for help and you telling her smoking is haram????

My dad is not speaking to me and said "yes, why don't you put a black mark on our faces you are not a special girl". And if you do happen to meet a prospective groom, simply tell him you are not interested in marrying him.

If not, then you are not married. How about posting hadiths about how forced marriages are invalid Abdullah, this is not a helpful answer.

It is not clear from your post whether you eventually gave consent or not. This girl is trapped in a forced marriage, yet your concern is cigarettes? I was so shocked that they hid such a big thing from us. Unfortunately, there are parents out there who will blackmail their children because they feel they own their children.

He told me after 4 days of me coming back to the UK that he can't go back to Australia as his visa will expire. I'd rather live in a homeless shelter than be married to someone I don't want to spend my life with. During that separation if you are certain you can't go back and there is nothing to salvage, you will have your answer. Were there witnesses present and did you give consent? It's your life and you have to make the choices that are right for you.

You can still do it, but you will have to be strong and assertive. One day you'll marry someone else and it will be fine. Now i am married to this guy for two years. Then mum went to Pakistan and said yes to the boy's family as his mum is very ill.

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Its not good for your health as well as others passive smokers. Have a separation time to think about if this is right. I agree. Aa'ishah reported that a girl came to her and said, "My father married me to his brother's son etc order to raise his social standing, and I did not want this marriage [I was forced into it].

Wael has given you good advice. I cant stand the thought of him. My mum is very soft hearted and I love her so much. Sometimes when I am at a loss for giving good advice on something I am not too familiar with such as marital advice because I have never been married before I tend to give advice mom something else that may seem a little bit off topic but may play a role on health and emotions such as the diet memarried the one seeking for advice, ex.

It would be better to not go through with this marriage and suffer the torment from family and community. Although it may not be helpful to you now, I would also like to highlight the part where your father told you to say no if you did not want to marry this person.

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I said why couldn't he speak to mum and he said I don't have to marry him but I explained mum is really upset and he did not help me much. You didn't any papers yourseld? The Messenger of Allaah peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him came and she told him about the girl. The Prophet said, "A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission.

Mum was really upset and said "you must - there will be no one else for you to marry". I have stayed with etc only two months but have kept quiet and leaked sometimes that I dont like him. I am extremely upset and have no choice of living anymore. I have a mother who used to be extremely controling of me, too, and always taught me that there's basically no need for to have independant thoughts and opinions, because parents do that on behalf of their children.

Oh, believe me Sister, I know how a lot of Muslims are raised. I then came back after 3 This and stayed with parents to apply for jobs but it didn't seem to work as the law had changed to annual salary. It is because of my parents sake I have not divocred the guy. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family memarried Companions! Did you have a nikah?

How can we know her permission? Just a week ago I told my dad I don't like him because my husband started talking behind my back but then tells me he has mom complaints yet complains about me.

But I no longer want to be in this marriage. If he has dignity, he will leave on his own.